Overcome Rejection 2nd of 2: Before
Consider It is impossible to discourage real writers. They don’t give a damn what you say. They’re going to write. – Sinclair Lewis Wordsmith Stars Overcoming Rejection Part 1 explored situations authors have faced with finished manuscripts, but having a story [or goal or idea or plan] refused after it’s developed is one thing. What about before starting? Psychology Today reported, The fear of rejection is one of our deepest human fears. Biologically wired with a longing to belong, we fear being seen in a critical way. We’re anxious about the prospect of being cut off, demeaned, or isolated. We fear being alone. We dread change. The depth and flavor of fear varies for each individual, although there are common elements at play. If we’re willing to look, what is our actual felt experience of rejection? What are we really afraid of? Read more Calm Sage offers these cures for fear of rejection, Engage in positive self talk Know that rejection does not define you Be kind to yourself More Nobel prize winning author Toni Morrison said, “If there’s a book that you want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it.” The same for any, marvelous hope or dream. But if, for the moment, ambitions feel thwarted, here are resources that can fortify, Succeed and Soar has examined F.E.A.R. a few times, including the January 16, 2021 post “False Evidence Appearing Real” and the March 21, 2020 post, “Face Everything And Rise.” 7 Authors Speak of Rejection as an Enormous Part of Writers Lives 50 Iconic Writers Who were Repeatedly Rejected 10 Reasons Why Novels Are Rejected Serenity Prayer Succeed and Soar! Shop Sandra’s Art on Stickers As well as tote bags, tee shirts, journals, puzzles, phone cases, ornaments, face masks, towels, blankets, cups, pillows, shower curtains and more. The high quality and unique Onesies produced by Fine Art America: Vinyl in sizes: 2×2, 3×3, 4×4, 6×6 Kiss-cut w 1/8” border Available with transparent or white background Adhesive back clings to smooth surfaces, easy to remove Adhesive backing with plenty of stickiness Clings to any smooth surface yet easy to remove Priced from $3.50 to $9.20 CUSTOMIZE. Use tools with item to: Enlarge, reduce size of art Change placement of art and text Buy Stickers Here Shop All Art and Collections HERE. Thanks for your support!
Overcome Rejection 1st of 2: After
Consider Rejected pieces aren’t failures; unwritten pieces are. – Greg Daugherty Huffington Post reported that Dr. Seuss was so disappointed after 27 children’s book publishers rejected his first story, he was about to burn the manuscript when an old friend from Vanguard Press agreed to publish And to Think I Saw It on Mulberry Street. Imagine a world without a book called “too different” and “silly.” We may never have had Green Eggs and Ham, The Cat in The Hat, How the Grinch Stole Christmas, What Was I Scared of? and Oh, The Places You’ll Go. Stephen King’ wrote four novels that were refused before Carrie was accepted. King didn’t mention how many rejections he received but ‘a book that’s inspired millions,’ Robert Pirsig’s Zen and The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance was turned down 120 times. Writers Write reported Beatrix Potter ultimately published The Tale of Peter Rabbit herself. Chicken Soup for the Soul was snubbed 134 times. But the record holder must be William Saroyan. The author of The Daring Young Man on the Flying Trapeze and The Trouble With Tigers claimed 7,000 refusals before selling his first short story. Rejection is part of life. For writers, perhaps more than most. J. K. Rowling fans know her Harry Potter story got the cold shoulder a dozen times. Editors thought the magical book was too long for young readers. Madeline L’Engle’s masterpiece A Wrinkle in Time was rejected 26 times, yet went on to win the Newberry Medal. Tony Hillerman’s writing reflects his admiration for indigenous people, especially the Navajo. But on his way to producing best-sellers, Hillerman was told to ‘get rid of the Indian stuff.’ Here’s what successful authors have said about being turned down: “I discovered that rejections are not altogether a bad thing. They teach a writer to rely on his own judgment and to say in his heart of hearts, ‘To hell with you.’“ – Saul Bellow “Every rejection is incremental payment on your dues that in some way will be translated back into your work.” – James Lee Burke “You have to know how to accept rejection and reject acceptance.” – Ray Bradbury Succeed and Soar! Shop Sandra’s Art on Onesies As well as tote bags, tee shirts, journals, puzzles, phone cases, ornaments, face masks, towels, blankets, cups, pillows, shower curtains and more. The high quality and unique Onesies produced by Fine Art America: Come in four sizes [6 months, 12 months, 18 months, 24 months] Are 100% pre-shrunk cotton Offer choice of 12 colors [including white, gold, pink, red, Kelly green and more] Are machine washable Price: $26 CUSTOMIZE. Use tools with item to: Enlarge, reduce size of art Change placement of art and text Choose from twelve, onesie colors Buy Onesies Here [choose from 4 sizes] Shop All Art and Collections HERE. Thanks for your support!
A Response To, “No.”
Never allow a person to tell you no who doesn’t have the power to say yes. – Eleanor Roosevelt Updated February 6, 2025 Based on my time spent selling baby furniture and cosmetics, I’m guessing salespeople hear, “No,” more than folks in any other profession. To handle. No, SalesWingsApp reminds, “Everybody gets rejected in love, in friendship, at school and when applying for jobs.” Inc.com has great tips for handling business rebuffs, including, If you never get rejected, you may be living too far inside your comfort zone. Use rejection as a chance to move forward with more wisdom Mute harsh inner critics with helpful affirmations Read more. SalesWingsApp offers remedies for the embarrassment, sadness, disappointment and discouragement that can come with being turned down, like not taking, ‘No’ personally. Also, relax and accept that rejection is part of the process. See more [especially the quick, energizing video]. In addition to reasons why rejection can be good [we can become more creative], Bridgette Hyacinth offers impressive ways to overcome rejection, including, Have a vision for something that feels special and right Stay motivated Put full steam into the next opportunity. Read more. Kris Jenner, momanager of the Kardashian clan said, “There’s so many times in life that I have taken no for an answer, and have regretted it later.” Her wisdom gained, “My general motto in my life for years has been, ‘if somebody says no, you’re talking to the wrong person.’” Read more. Sounds like Ms. Jenner also took Eleanor Roosevelt’s advice. Inspired by former first lady, I’ve come up with acronyms for NO: Never Over, New Options, Next Opportunity. What are yours? Succeed and Soar! Eleanor’s Insights Collection Succeed and Soar’s “Eleanor’s Insights” series is illustrated with photographs of ‘wild places.’ Art is available as prints, framed and on canvas as well as clothing, totes, coffee mugs, journals, greeting cards, shower curtains, puzzles and more. Shop Here Thanks for your support!