Soul Words: Created Family

Cousins are friends who already know how crazy your family is. โ Source Unknown Sometimes, Richard Bachโs words prove true, โFamily isnโt always blood. Itโs the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what.โ ย [Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah]ย Bach also wrote, โThe bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each otherโs life. Rarely do members of one family grow up under the same roof.โAs described in a Rick Riordan novel, โFamilies are messy. Immortal families are eternally messy. Sometimes the best we can do is to remind each other that weโre related for better or for worseโand try to keep the maiming and killing to a minimum.โ For mere mortals,ย Thought Catalogย acknowledges, “You may have purposely severed certain connections because they became too toxic for you, because you finally realized the truth โ that blood doesnโt determine whether or not someone deserves a place inside of your universe. Despite what you grew up believing, your family members arenโtย alwaysย the people who were inside of the hospital room on the day of your birth. Your family membersย arenโtย alwaysย the people that your genetics bind you to biologically.ย Read more If the family you’re born into isnโt the one you need,โย Shondalandย suggests, Get rid of guilt about disengaging Value the people you have Read more Did you know that there areย six types of families?ย Traditional, Blended, Extended, Single Parent, Same Sex, Childless and the Family You Choose.There are also Nuclear, Step and Grandparent families, each withย strengths and weaknesses.ย Whatever the situation, families can be, โlike that annoying itch you canโt scratch. โMaybe Shailene Woodley is right, โEvery family is dysfunctional, whether you want to admit it or not.โ If so, remember these quotes, โCaller ID was invented for family screening.โ โSiblings are your first frenemies.โ ย “Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.” –ย George Burns โThe great advantage of living in a large family is that early lesson of lifeโs essential unfairness.โ โ Nancy Mitford โโWell, that escalated quicklyโ is our family motto.โ ย โThe capacity for friendship is Godโs way of apologizing for our families.โ–Jay McInerney The Wanderings & Wonders Shop Enriching and Beautiful Art Click Here
Einstein 18: You, The Great Teacher

It is the supreme art of the teacher to awaken joy in creative expression and knowledge.ย – Albert Einstein The one time I met Great Aunt Hattie [she married my grandfatherโs brother Jesse], that big woman with her sunshine brightness taught me about generous spirits. When my dad refused her money and wouldn’t buy my sister and I small fruit pies, she scoffed affectionately and told him to go on down to the corner store and get her little grand nieces those treats. Yeah!! My motherโs older sister Irene loved to throw Saturday night Pokeno parties with rich treats she shared from homes where she worked in wealthier neighborhoods. Hospitality!! Funny, the things children remember. Iโm so glad to have been educated by ladies who awakened joy in special kinds of creative expression and knowledge of big-hearted spirits. After all, we’re all teachers, all the time. Shop “Raindrops,”ย this week’s Featured Art Featured Video ***** Sunday, May 23rdย isย World Turtle Day, a special time to protect turtles, tortoises and their homes. Did you know that while all tortoises are turtles, not all turtles are tortoises. Although both animals are encased in bony shells and lay eggs, a few big differences include: Tortoises cannot swim. Their heavy, dome-shaped shells would sink them. Turtles are water animals with lighter, more aerodynamic shells. Tortoises have stubby, elephant-like legs. ย Turtle legs are webbed and can even be flippers, all designed for swimming. Surprising facts about turtles
