Soul Words: Created Family

Cousins are friends who already know how crazy your family is. โ€“ Source Unknown Sometimes, Richard Bachโ€™s words prove true, โ€œFamily isnโ€™t always blood. Itโ€™s the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what.โ€ ย [Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah]ย Bach also wrote, โ€œThe bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each otherโ€™s life. Rarely do members of one family grow up under the same roof.โ€As described in a Rick Riordan novel, โ€œFamilies are messy. Immortal families are eternally messy. Sometimes the best we can do is to remind each other that weโ€™re related for better or for worseโ€•and try to keep the maiming and killing to a minimum.โ€ For mere mortals,ย Thought Catalogย acknowledges, “You may have purposely severed certain connections because they became too toxic for you, because you finally realized the truth โ€” that blood doesnโ€™t determine whether or not someone deserves a place inside of your universe. Despite what you grew up believing, your family members arenโ€™tย alwaysย the people who were inside of the hospital room on the day of your birth. Your family membersย arenโ€™tย alwaysย the people that your genetics bind you to biologically.ย Read more If the family you’re born into isnโ€™t the one you need,โ€ย Shondalandย suggests, Get rid of guilt about disengaging Value the people you have Read more Did you know that there areย six types of families?ย Traditional, Blended, Extended, Single Parent, Same Sex, Childless and the Family You Choose.There are also Nuclear, Step and Grandparent families, each withย strengths and weaknesses.ย  Whatever the situation, families can be, โ€œlike that annoying itch you canโ€™t scratch. โ€Maybe Shailene Woodley is right, โ€œEvery family is dysfunctional, whether you want to admit it or not.โ€ If so, remember these quotes, โ€œCaller ID was invented for family screening.โ€ โ€œSiblings are your first frenemies.โ€ ย “Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.” –ย George Burns โ€œThe great advantage of living in a large family is that early lesson of lifeโ€™s essential unfairness.โ€ โ€“ Nancy Mitford โ€œโ€˜Well, that escalated quicklyโ€™ is our family motto.โ€ ย โ€œThe capacity for friendship is Godโ€™s way of apologizing for our families.โ€–Jay McInerney       The Wanderings & Wonders Shop Enriching and Beautiful Art Click Here

Einstein 18: You, The Great Teacher

It is the supreme art of the teacher to awaken joy in creative expression and knowledge.ย  – Albert Einstein The one time I met Great Aunt Hattie [she married my grandfatherโ€™s brother Jesse], that big woman with her sunshine brightness taught me about generous spirits. When my dad refused her money and wouldn’t buy my sister and I small fruit pies, she scoffed affectionately and told him to go on down to the corner store and get her little grand nieces those treats. Yeah!! My motherโ€™s older sister Irene loved to throw Saturday night Pokeno parties with rich treats she shared from homes where she worked in wealthier neighborhoods. Hospitality!! Funny, the things children remember. Iโ€™m so glad to have been educated by ladies who awakened joy in special kinds of creative expression and knowledge of big-hearted spirits. After all, we’re all teachers, all the time. Shop “Raindrops,”ย this week’s Featured Art Featured Video ***** Sunday, May 23rdย isย World Turtle Day, a special time to protect turtles, tortoises and their homes. Did you know that while all tortoises are turtles, not all turtles are tortoises. Although both animals are encased in bony shells and lay eggs, a few big differences include: Tortoises cannot swim. Their heavy, dome-shaped shells would sink them. Turtles are water animals with lighter, more aerodynamic shells. Tortoises have stubby, elephant-like legs. ย Turtle legs are webbed and can even be flippers, all designed for swimming. Surprising facts about turtles  

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